It happens, you’re in a serious relationship moving forward when along comes a pretty little thing you find hard to resist: the chick’s shamelessly coming on to you with all that she has; and before you can think straight you give into her seductive advances.
You Did a Bad Bad Thing and all that you’re left with are feelings of guilt, not to mention the need to confess your gigantic mistake – one you promise yourself you won’t make again – to the one that you love. You aren’t the first man to cheat on his lady, however that doesn’t make it okay. Huh huh, no way!
No doubt, the fact that you’ve cheated will prey on your mind. And most likely you’ll feel the need to unload your burdensome thoughts with a confession. Yet the question remains, should you tell her or keep your indiscretion to yourself – not rock the boat – hoping that eventually your guilt will subside and things will go on just as usual? Aware of where it may lead, you grapple with the right thing to do. Certainly you’d want to know if the roles were reversed.
Most women believe that once a cheater always a cheater, and few have the emotional capacity to forgive and forget. However, keep in mind that once you’ve cheated, word gets out and when you least expect it – just when you think it’s in the past – it may come back to haunt you. You weren’t in it alone and you can’t trust that the woman with whom you cheated isn’t talking it up all over town. After all we live in a society that thrives on stories like this.
You Did a Bad Bad Thing. Make the right choice.