Extremely strong women can be a handful. They have their lives together and have absolutely no problem speaking their minds. They’re independent, financially secure, and less willing to compromise their lifestyles in order to win over just any man.
On your first few dates you may feel that she’s pulling you too far into her world while yours seems nudged to the side. However, before giving into the sudden urge to walk (run) away from a potentially good match, don’t hesitate to speak your thoughts.
Though extremely strong women can come off a bit rigid, they’re not completely inflexible and are more willing than you may think to make a few compromises when Mr. Right comes along.
When attracted to a strong woman, give the lady a chance. If your conversation is lively and you share similar interests don’t let your first impression (that of feeling a bit frightened that you’ll lose yourself somewhere in the process of dating her) have you immediately crossing her off your list of potential partners. Rather, on your second or third date speak your mind. You may be surprised by what you hear.
Extremely strong women are well aware of their power and strength. And having it challenged is not necessarily a bad thing. Your willingness to address your concern means that she’s met her equal.
When a man enters the realm of an extremely strong woman she immediately wants him know that she’s just fine as she is – she isn’t desperate. Yet, that doesn’t mean that she intends to remain single forever. In fact, quite the opposite. An extremely strong woman wants a very strong man.
On the flip side, if the very thought of dating an extremely strong woman has you freaking out, keep your distance. There are plenty of single women with fulfilling lives that don’t feel as strongly, or are as vocal, about their independence as others.